need help !

okay guys. anyone can help me to tidy up my blog's face ? i wanna get some make-up to touch-up my blog's face. she's not ugly. seriously, she's need something to be more catchy like others. i bet she must be jealous if she walking in to the other site. anyhow, i dont want make her sad when she go through the other page. because, she loves to check out other sites to get maybe some new ideas. and yes, she just got it :) but no, she didn't know how to proceed it :( and now, she's need help from others. please help me. will you ? i wanna ask you how to make "display recent posts on sidebar", how to "make button generator for social pages" and etc. just leave a comment if you do know to answer my questions. i really need your help guys. i already find out those tuto(s) but sadly, im still didn't get the truest yet. i tried and it failed. tried and failed. tried and failed. almost to 10 trials. and that is why i decided to create a new post to ask your help buddies. hopefully there's someone really wanna help me out there :')

p/s : critical ! +_+
pardon me,